Monday, 15 May 2017

What are 20 random facts about yourself?

  1. I am light taste person, or I am just very health conscious. I might become a vegan one day. slowly into that.
  2. I death afraid of cold, is either my body are weak or I am thin.
  3. I enjoy cooking, I really like to cook and make my food look nice.
  4. I used to play trumpet for ten years, but now I stop playing it. My favorite pieces is Buglers' Holiday.
  5. I just realize I like chocolate but with 70% of Cacao inside, other will be too sweet for me, as I mention I am light taste person.
  6. I talk a lots when I meet my best friend, If I keep quiet it mean I am either depress or I don’t like you.
  7. I like my weekend activities to be out door, with animals or in the forest, I don’t really do shopping, I am a peaceful person.
  8. I have really poor in getting direction, I always lost my path, I get lost even in the shopping mall.
  9. I have sleeping issue, I still have it, I wakes up easily and difficult to fall sleep.
  10. I am tough, I work as building maintenance team that I always climb up to roof. below are some random photo I take from roof top.
11. I really love pig, I don’t know why, I could spend whole day stalking the Esther the wonder pig.
12.I love Indian food and also Indian costume, and henna.
13. I write a lots and spend quite some time on reading Quora everyday.
14. I rather spend time with animals than human. :D I feels I understand animals feelings. I can understood chicken language, I knew when they are calling each other for food and when they are afraid the sound different, because I pets chicken for more the 10 years.
15. I want to own a zoo when I was little, I always dreamed my house are full of animals and I lives happily inside like a princess.
16. I went to gym 4 to 5 day a weeks, for cardio and muscle training.
17. I look a lots younger then my age, I am also tougher then you can imagine, l look really petite and tidy. People use to judge my ability. I make them wow.
18. I like to help people try to motivate people a lots, secretly I have depression. But I always like to help and being able to help make me feels happy.
19. One day If my financially allow me, I will cooked a lots each day and give it to the homeless or starving people, I have gastric , I understand the feeling of hunger.
20. I can’t drink coffee at all, I will faint, I guess I save a lots money that many people spend on Starbucks each day.

Quora question : At what point did you know that your relationship was not going to work out?

We both lost faith on each other.
I remember those days, very first time I look at my ex-boyfriend. He looks very cute and charming. He is like the most happiest person in the world, every day I could see he do is laughing and smiling. He is very positive person, confident and he could missed his Bus to college but still think it is complete all right. He could falls down in his life but still faced it very positively.
We get very close in rapid of time, we were so happy to meet each other every day in college although we are in different course, we spend time together each day and sometime I attend his class. We are college student that time, both of us don’t have much money to spend, but I kind of thinks that was most beautiful time I spent in the entire 21 yo, he is would buy me his’s favorite noodles soup for me on lunch time in the college's canteen and we are happy even is not expensive food because we got to spend time together everyday lunch.
After one semester of dating, we are on our graduate years soon, he was in his internship, I was on my last semester on the college, we both have to accept the facts that we will be apart for someday, we both have no transport to reach each other except maybe weekend. I feel really missed him in this day. I was very clingy person and we are so in love in this stage.
After the last semester of the college, I have to study abroad in UK for the half years, half years is not much compare to some people study abroad few years to take their degree. Before the semester I gone to UK, we meet a lots, I have my partime job in the shopping center, I remember that he would willing to visit me even he was in exam, He waited me to off work. I feel very warm that he is so good to me in this stage. Then I flew all the way from Malaysia to UK, we have 7 hour time different. Sometime we both talk phone on the late night. It was tough time to separate so long and so far, luckily we been through all the hard time there, I remember that day I got back to my country, he cried in the lift, he said he feel something special to meet me again.
We both working after the long separation, My first job I work 6 days in a weeks, He would travel from his site to meet me at weekend, sometime weekdays, after work, he had to jam in traffic maybe one hour to fetch me after my work, and we go for dinner. I appreciate the hard-work that he had payoff. I was still very happy in this moment, sometime we argue, but we never lost faith.
Soon, I left my first job, due to some company politics issue, In one month time I got myself another new job, This job have given me a lot of free time, I got to off two day in a weeks, but here the problem come in, I was a very clingy person, I bother him a lots maybe, He started to lost faith on me, he lost his patient, I lost my patient too. He told me I have to do my own things on weekend, he can’t afford to finds me during every weekends he got his own things to do, I could bear any separation yet I have no transport, I have to rely on him, maybe he lost patient, or he is stress, his work begin to give him a lots of pressure, I just don’t understand.
In years 2016, We join our first half-marathon in April, we argue one day before the marathon, the next day we join the marathon together like usual, we both argue but we still be good with each other every time. He walk with me for the 19kms, he is a runner while I am not, I walk very slow, on the very last 2km he told me, he couldn't wait me anymore, I told him, we make it to so far, this is the only last 2km, but he still left me. This is the first time I started to doubt whether he is right one for me.
In the May 2016, we both went to hike the Kota Kinabalu, This is very tough hiking trip for me, the Mountain is 4,095m-high, My leg sore, and it is freezing up there, I knew he could do better than me, I decided not to climb up to the peak and wait him in the previous rest point, I thought we could make it to go down together, but he told me his leg was sore and he have to reach to the down mountain faster so he could rest, after this word, he run down to the mountain and left me behind, once again. I try to chase him in the mountain, I fell down twice, I get up as quickly as I could, so I could meet him.
Sometime I could feel his lost patient on me, I didn't want to tell more about it, I know we will end up argue, I could remember that practice before the hiking the Mountain Kota Kinabalu, my leg was little bit slow and I was afraid to slips down, so I bend my leg and squat down a little bit, he told me I wasn’t so afraid and it wasn’t so hard, walk like a normal, he told me don’t fake it to get his attention.
Maybe I wasn’t the right one, or maybe I really not good enough, after so many things he told me, he really make me feel I am not enough for him, he want me to be more independent, I just being too clingy for him. At last I decided to have my own things to do, I start work out and we only meet once a week, or maybe twice a week, I started to focus on my stuff, I wasn’t so clingy at last time, maybe he didn’t notice yet, or maybe my past annoyed him a lots, he still not have patient on me.
I knew He likes marathon a lots, I wasn’t trying to stop him, but I wanted to join a small run with him so we could finished together so I can erase that bad memories and replaced with a good one. I signed up and a small run with him together that is only 8kms. I think this is a good distance we both can finish together. We argue one weeks before the run, I didn’t remind him about the run date, because I thinks he should know it because he loves marathon and I pretty sure that I told him I register both of our name for that run and I told him the date during the register period. During that particular date, I wake up in the morning, wondering if he remember today is the date. He didn’t make it to the run, I swear this is the longest run that I had ever walk, I once want to stop myself from finishing the run, because I felt is exhaust from deep of my heart, I swear to myself, this would be my last run on my life, it took me so long to finished, My heart felt it take me forever to finished because I walk alone. In that day afternoon, he come and find me, I remember My mother ask him why he didn’t come to join me for the run, I remember all I heard is he said to my mother. “I don’t know there is a running event.” He don’t even remember that run is significant to me, and I never told him.
Finally I planned to move on my life without him, I try very hard, I guess we both tried very hard, It been three and a half years, it is very long period, I guess we both are really tired on that stage. I couldn’t bear it one more time if he left me, he couldn’t take my complaint anymore. I very upset on that stage, and he is very stress that time. I remember we called up in phone for the one last time, he never called and visit me anymore since then.
Faith is the key point holding peoples together, by losing of the faith, the relationship is not going to work out anymore. Feelings will tell you weather you still have faith with each others, sometimes we have to honest to our feeling. I accept the truth now and I have to keep searching my faith in future.

What are 5 examples of cooking methods?

Steam
Basically I do this this is for corn, fish, sweet potatoes, and heat up of rice and noodle. This is very healthy method and minimum lost of nutrition of food because is using water vapor to heat up your food and the food be appear softer and moisture then the original is.
Pour some water on the pot your food on top with a bowl and you just have to heat up until the water turn to vapor and heat up your food until you think is good to eat. You can use two or three tier pot to help you if you don’t have bamboo steamer.
Oven baked
Oven baked is heating up the food through transfer heat into your food, this cooking method created lesser smell to the kitchen and it is easy to cooked and if your food are still raw you can always heat up again until your satisfactory level . You can bake any kind of food in oven and the water contain on the food will be reduce into certain level that is how you create a crispier food by lost of water. You can also bake cake and bread by using oven too.
deep fried
Deep fried is basically using heat oil to make the surface of the food lost of water, this is because oil have higher heating point then water, that why deep fried food will appear crispier than all the other way, deep fried is fast , you have to consider the size of the food you deep fried is not too big to avoid the over cooked on the surface of your food and the inside are still raw. We normally cut into smaller portion or steam our food first before we deep fried the food.
Boil,
I believe Boiling is the most easy way to cooked the food, you can basically boil any food and you will not over boil something. Boiling is nice sometime you could save up the soup or broth for cooking noodles and pasta.
Stir fried
Stir fried is something use frying pan to cook the food, we use adequate number of oil to cook the food. This method of cooking required special skills, you need to observe the food weather is weather is well cooked and how much oil and water you need to add in. If you stir fried few type of food together, you need to put your food according to consequence to avoid over cook in one type of food, this method require years of practice and the taste might be varied by controlling the heat and also the consequence of food.
All picture source by google image

Monday, 24 April 2017

Tips for gentlemen in dating



  • Kiss girl forehead instead of lips on first kiss.
  • Hold the door if the ladies is walking to the door.
  • Hold the lift remain opened for ladies.
  • Open the car door for your female friend.
  • Lend them your hand if females are wearing heels.
  • Try to respect women’s opinion.
  • Women angry for reasons, not because we are having period. respect people’s emotion.
  • Hold umbrella for ladies. Lend them your coats if they are cold.
  • If women offer to pay the bills, let them, women has earning power too.
  • Walk her home or send her home if she is alone.
  • Please respect all women dressing , don’t critic on what they should or shouldn't not wear, everyone have their own preference.

Sunday, 23 April 2017

Quora question What is the most PHYSICALLY painful experience you have ever had?


Graphic warning! ! ! !
This accident happened when I was 21 years old, in the 2013. I'm not totally sure if I am allow to post this. It looks really disgusting and I apologize if you are eating.
My leg was scalded by hot water. It was almost 50 percent of my thigh. It felt like continuous burning on the thigh after the accident happened. I couldn't really walk, and had to hobble to my dad’s car to make it to the nearest clinic.
It happened on a normal morning that I was going to make myself a cup of tea. I was pouring hot water into a cup when I accidentally toppled my cup and the whole cup of hot water poured onto my thigh. At the time I was wearing a thick pair of jeans. I had to quickly take off my pants due to the hot water seeping in. I wasn't quick enough and the hot water reaches my skin. Once I got my pants off I saw my skin was starting to become red, the top epidermis started swelling, and was becoming a big blister. I remembered some basic first aid that I had learned at school and I knew that if I let some water run over it would help my wound cool down. I quickly hobbled into the bathroom and open the water taps to let the water run for 10 minutes. It was painful, but this is was best way to cool down the continuous burning feeling. This was a very important part of the healing process - if I had not known basic first aid, my skin would have become wrinkled and wouldn't have recovered as nicely as it has now.
I called my dad to take me to clinic that day. It took him 15 minutes to make it home and take me to the hospital. The doctor applied me some thick white cream and poked the blister. It was a very long process and quite painful. I was then sent home to rest in bed. The doctor didn’t cover my leg with gauze, which I think is right, because the whole night my leg continued sweating. I think it is normal because I lost my whole layer of the epidermis. I was lucky that he didn’t cover my leg with gauze.
Then, my very “smart “ mother, who was previously a nurse, was worried about my wound. She doubted that the doctor knowledge regarding not covering my wound and believed that it would cause a bacteria infection, despite being prescribed with some antibiotics. Due to her worry, I bought bandages and gauze and attempted to cover up my wound after few days. The worst part of my day began as my wound always very wet it would cause my skin to attach to the gauze. Imagine your skin and the gauze are all stuck together and now you have to undress the wound with new bandage and gauze. I would spend hours, peeling off the gauze and my skin and hating my mother. I actually invented a new way to undress my skin with gauze which was to pour some skin oil onto the gauze, which helped moisturize my skin again and made it easier to remove the gauze. The day after that, I refused to put on the bandage again.
I was in bed and was only able to hobble around for the entire month. My skin began to harden, and it formed a new layer of scab. During this stage it was very itchy, but I was told do not scatch the scab. The best way to stop the itchiness is to put some bio skin oil on it so the skin won't feel so dry and it will reduce the itchiness.
This was the day my scab started to fall off. I was able to walk like normal again. I remember I was told not to eat dark soil sauce so that my wound wouldn't have a scar on it. The doctor told me that there would be a scar on my leg forever. I wasn’t really hoping that my leg will be perfect again - I just hoped it wouldn't look so ugly.
Few months later, this is what my thigh looked like. It turned purple and dark and you could see my blood vessels on it. This is the time I began to feel pretty upset. I remember a time I was in a fitting room to try out some pantsand when I took off my pants in the fitting room I just stared at my scar. I just looked at the scar and how it was so ugly and I knew that I wouldn't be able to wear shorts again. I cried in the fitting room. I was so down and upset that I would never look pretty again.
So now, four years later, my leg is entirely healed and the skin look great! You can hardly notice there is any scar on it. I was either very lucky or I took really good care of the skin. I applied oil everyday on the would during the curing time, and kept applying it for two years later. My skin became smoother and the tone ended up matching the same color as other parts of my skin. The key to getting your wound heal is to believe that it will heal. To the girl out there who got a scar: I hope you love yourself more. Your body will love you back and show you some miracle. You have trust me. Doctors tell you there will be a scar but it will still heal if you believe it will. I remember those day I was afraid of people looking at my scar, and felt scared that I would never find people to love me because I have big scar on my thigh. Now, I know I was over worrying. I later met a guy that loves me for my personality instead of my appearance. He encouraged me a lot and I lived my most beautiful year when I was 21.
I hope my story have inspired some people who had same scar or have been through the same experience like me. Your scar will heal - you just need take good care of it and have positive attitude about it. It's just a scar and it will not affect your life and you deserve to be happy and you are still beautiful.

Wednesday, 29 March 2017

Quora Question on : What are some tips for people wanting to get married?

I seen a beautiful love story appear in my house. I try to observe them and understands why they can married for 30 years and still remain sweet to each others. I am blessed that my parent are still so in love after 30 years of married. It kind of make me feel proud of them. I have found these simple things in life in their daily routines that make them closed to each others

  1. They spend time together - they exercise together every weekdays, Seriously, everyday. they wakes up at the same times although my mother don’t need to works, she still get up to spend time exercise with my dad and later they go to same breakfast shop to eat breakfast together. and it has been 30 years.
  2. Communication - Whenever my dad go out-station , he will called my mother to talk about his daily life every night before he sleeps, whether there is a time different or not.
  3. Caring of each other -When one of them are sick, they spend time take good care in for the others, I thinks this is very sweets because every time we got sick, we feel weak on the body and our feelings feel sad, I see they could spend whole day together with the partner or even wakes up in the middle night just to pour hot water to the partners.
  4. They respect each others as in they will not over-right each others opinions most the time, I thinks this is important because everyone has their own opinion, try not to critic your partner as they are completely different individuals from you.
  5. They appreciate each others, I have asked my mother onetime, I ask her whether she is ever regret to married my dad? My mother answer was no, she never regret, although we are not come from rich family, but my mother do appreciate what my father has done to her, she thinks my dad is very hard working man.
  6. Equality between them - I am from the Chinese community, a lots of people see men are more precious then women in our community, they thinks women should do the house works and man shall be served by wife, but I couldn't find the sexist between this couples, my father will assist or help to do all the housework, even cooking and taking cares the babies when my mother is sick or lazy. He will never complaint about tired and claim that is a women’ s jobs.
  7. They insist of the same things-They are born to each others both of them are strict in cleanliness and tidiness, my mother loves to cleans, my father likes to tidy up things, My house is always clean and tidy.
  8. They shared and have the same interested in life. They enjoy cooking, during the weekends they always go to the markets together and discuss on what to cook on lunch or dinner, they cook together during the weekends, one of them will be cleaning the fish and one of them are preparing the dish.
There is so far the eight point I observe from my parent, I hope it helps you on your relationship too.

Monday, 10 October 2016

Quore question : Most embarrassing hotel moment

Best Way to Relax after Stress Day

1. Putting my mask and lay down on bed.
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2. Open laptop and watching my favorite movie.
3. Meditate / Yoga / Stretching
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4. Do nothing just lay down on bed start thinking something cute/wonderful
5. Cooking, make some nice decorative on the plate and upload to Instagram
6. Do scratch art, this is very relaxing and need a lot patient and feel satisfied
7. Or coloring work like Painting the secret garden

Saturday, 10 September 2016

Edible flower

I started with this at first.
Yes, I ate flower, I started with this, zucchini Flower. Maybe still most of the people wont eat flower but there is actually more than 40 over flower is edible. Wow.
It started the story like this, I was once go to fine dining restaurant, and the chef serve me this Roasted Zucchini Flower with some salmon. I tried the the salmon and all the salad on the plate a
nd I left the flower there and I thought is a decoration, I din’t know there is actually can be eat, until my friend tell me that is the part of dish.
My Friend :“ Hei, you left the dish on the plate, come on, finish it, is fine dining, it is expensive , dude! eat until the plate is clear.”
Me “ No way, is a decoration and it is flower! I cant eat flower, No one eat flower , come on , they will think I am poor AF will try to eat decoration.”
My Friend “ You idiot, Zucchini Flower is edible!”
Me “ Really? “
I eat one small part of it and IT IS SO DELICIOUS.
after that day I try to search online for the recipe of the zucchini Flower, and I try to roast it at home for fun. My family like it. and I try the deep fried recepi they love it, they said it taste like tempura. LOL
Then I started to try more and more flower recipe with pumpkin flower and more to explore I now become fans of edible flower.
you can try nice flower Popsicle , you kid gonna love this, use soda or honey water and mixed with the edible flower.
Donuts with flower sprinkle. So dedicate isn't it?
It become elegant when you try in put inside to every meals.
Hope you like my answer and you must try Zucchini Flower it is still my favorite.
List of Edible flower that I mostly Deal with
  • Alliums 
  •  Basil 
  •  Borage 
  •  Carnations 
  •  Chicory 
  •  Dandelions 
  •  Roses.
  •  Sage 
  •  Violets 

Thursday, 1 September 2016

Quick and tasty cooking tips for Ramen


Benito Flakes
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Benito Flakes is so simple it make a delicious soup base, sometime instead of boil the soup I just pour some hot water into Benito flakes and some soy sauce and salt and it created a soup base for me,
Kombu
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 If you want a thicker boils soup taste, you can add all the Kombu, Dried mushroom and anchorites into the soup, it taste similar to the Dashi you buy in market, you can also add in some Miso paste for the saltier taste.
I also like to put some seasoned seaweed right after the soup is put inside the bowl so my seaweed will melt in the soup and the soup will become so delicious !!!Image result for seasoned seaweed

Cheap date idea in Kuala Lumpur


Do some Picnic, that we spend only the money for nice food, and enjoy the weather and talking with someone you wish to know more.
There is several location we can do picnic and other activities that wont cost so much money in KL .
  1. KLCC park garden
You can do some shopping or buy your food from the shopping center right beside this garden and you can do some window shopping if you don;t feel like spending too much money.
  1. FRIM (Forest Research Institute Malaysia)
You can jogging around this place and enjoy the weather and sit down with your nice food.
  1. Titiwangsa Lake garden
You can have horse riding, rent bicycle and cycling around the garden and you will see the Kuala Lumpur view in the reflection on the lake, you can come here whole day you can see significant night view from the KL from here too.
  1. kepong metropolitan park
Kite flying is awesome I just done in last weekend this place is always windy you can come here and buy your kite and it wont cost much and you enjoy the windy weather and children laugh and everyone is having good mood here.

Wednesday, 24 August 2016

Great tips about hair